I Love Rattle!

If you are a poet, or if you just like poems, you need to know about Rattle. Rattle is a poetry journal published by the Rattle Foundation, an independent non-profit whose mission is to promote the practice of poetry.
I love Rattle because it is full of poetry of the caliber I aspire to write. That’s not to say that I like every poem, but many of them are so delightful that I will immediately reread them to try to discover what the poet did to make it resonate with me.
I first discovered Rattle because of the contests that the Rattle Foundation runs. One is for chapbooks (small books of poems). The prize is $5000, publication, 500 author copies, and distribution to their 7000+ subscribers! Over the years, I’ve entered four different chapbooks, though I haven’t won yet. That won’t stop me from trying. The current contest deadline is January 15, 2024. (Surely you can write 15-30 pages of poetry by then. I’m working on it.) The fee for entering is $30, but for that fee they will also give you a one year subscription to Rattle (or extend your subscription for another year—I have several years racked up now). Rattle is published four times a year, and they choose up to three winners for the annual Chapbook contest. They also publish an annual Young Poets Anthology, made up of 20 poems from poets aged 15 or younger. That means your issue of the journal is usually sent with an accompanying prize-winning chapbook, or the Young Poets Anthology for the year (in June). What a deal!
Rattle also has an annual contest for a single poem. The Rattle Poetry Prize is $15,000. Yes, you read that right. $15,000 for a single poem. Obviously, the competition is great for this award. (I send them all my best poems.) The judges also choose ten finalists who win $500 each, and one of those will receive the $5000 Reader’s Choice Award, which is chosen by votes from subscribers. Again, your $30 entry fee also gets you a year’s subscription or extension. All the winners are published in the Winter issue.
You can sign up to have a free daily poem delivered by email.
You can listen to a two-hour weekly podcast called Rattlecast.
And I haven’t even told you about all the contests.
Have I convinced you yet to check out Rattle? What are you waiting for? What do you have to lose?
Reviews of Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover and The Atlas of Beauty by Mihaela Noroc
Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover
I recently found out that Colleen Hoover is a prolific writer of New York Times bestsellers. I’d never read anything by her, so I bought one book, not realizing that she writes romance. (The title should have been a dead giveaway, but somehow I didn’t notice.) I used to read lots of romance when I was younger, but stopped a couple of decades ago, because, really, it’s pornography for women.
If you don’t want to get all hot and bothered, this is not the book for you.
That said, Ugly Love is very well-written, with fully developed characters, an engaging storyline, and a big secret that kept me reading. (Also, lots of graphic sex scenes.)
Tate has moved to San Francisco where she is studying (not sure exactly what, but it seems to be healthcare related) and working part time (in a hospital, doing something unspecified but which involves weekend rotations). Her brother Corbin says she can live with him until she can get her own place, but on the night when she arrives, the apartment door is blocked by a drunk guy trying to get in. Tate calls Corbin (who is a pilot and won’t be home until the morning), and it turns out this drunk is a neighbor and friend of Corbin’s, and he asks her to let him in, promising that he’s harmless.
The drunk guy is Miles, and after he sobers up, Miles and Tate discover they are very attracted to each other. Except Tate is way too busy for a relationship. And so is Miles, who is also a pilot, and often away from home for multiple days at a time. Miles’ personality is also an obstacle—he’s closed off and emotionally distant.
A few months later, Corbin invites Miles to travel to San Diego with him and Tate to celebrate Thanksgiving with their family. During the weekend, both Tate and Miles are painfully aware of their attraction. Miles insists he doesn’t want to date, doesn’t want to like anyone, certainly doesn’t want to fall in love. They come up with a compromise—they’ll have sex, but Miles makes Tate promise never to ask about his past or to think that they have a future together.
The book is structured with chapters narrated in the present from Tate’s point of view, alternating with chapters narrated from Miles’ viewpoint six years ago. Little by little, we learn about the trauma Miles suffered that makes him incapable of commitment. Actually, when I finally knew his whole backstory, I didn’t think there could be a happy ending for these two. There are too many tragic interchanges, too many barriers to a healthy relationship.
However, there is a twist at the end that I didn’t see coming—and that’s all I’ll say, because I don’t want to spoil it for you.
The Atlas of Beauty: women of the world in 500 portraits by Mihaela Noroc
A friend of mine showed me breathtaking photographs on the Facebook page called The Atlas of Beauty. When I saw that there was a book of these photos, I checked it out, expecting it to be very expensive. It turns out the price is quite reasonable, so I bought it.
Noroc is a multilingual resident of Bucharest, Romania. She spent four years traveling through 50 countries to put together this project.
The photos are gorgeously composed and the subjects are diverse. Some of the women are supermodel beautiful; others exemplify inner beauty. Many wear traditional ethnic costumes.

The layouts are interesting as well, with satisfying juxtapositions. Some photos are accompanied with a story about the woman pictured; others with just the location.
Whether you love looking at attractive women or appreciate excellent portrait photography, you will enjoy this book.
Telephonophobia
I dread making phone calls.
I don’t know why.
But of all the tasks I put off, making phone calls is definitely the most common one.
I used to enjoy talking on the phone. For example, I gabbed to Greg for hours on the phone when we were dating. When I was young, if I called a friend, I was guaranteed to talk for a good hour. And occasionally, I still do.
But right now, there are two relatives whom I haven’t spoken to in a long time, and I really should check in. But I don’t want to. One of them is hard to talk to, but the other is a delight. So why can’t I at least make the second call? Beats me.
I also have three business calls to make. I keep putting them off.
Twenty-four years ago I applied for a job in a procurement office, where I started out as a filing clerk and soon took on more responsibilities, including making phone calls to check up on orders. Before my first call I sat and stared at the order for a full ten minutes, gathering courage and rehearsing what I wanted to say. The call went very smoothly, as did 99% of the calls I made during my five years in that position. You’d think that experience would make me a confident caller now, but I can’t shake my reluctance.
Part of it is the time factor. As my husband’s caretaker, my time is fragmented. He could need my help at any moment. I’d hate to be in the middle of a call and need to say, “I’ll call you back.” Sigh. Two calls instead of one. Also, if the other person is talking, I’m not good at breaking in and saying, “Sorry, I gotta go.”
I don’t know what the rest of my problem is. Fear? Maybe, but of what? That the callee will find me tedious or annoying?
I googled telephonophobia and see if it is a real thing.
It is.
According to BetterUp, some common emotional symptoms of phone anxiety include:
- You avoid making calls or having others call you
- You delay answering calls
- You obsess about what you’ll say before the call and what was said when it’s over
- You worry about embarrassing yourself
- You let anxious thoughts take over, thinking you’ll receive bad news
Yep, that’s me. At least the first and third symptoms, and the others occasionally.
The article also says that it’s a very common affliction. A 2019 study revealed that 76% of millennials suffer from it, as well as 40% of baby boomers (that would be me).
Here’s how BetterUp recommends dealing with telephonophobia:
- Pick up the phone.
- Smile.
- Afterward, reward yourself.
- Don’t overthink it.
- If the phone rings and it’s someone you don’t want to talk to at the moment, you can always let it go to voicemail.
Now it’s your turn. Do you ever suffer from phone anxiety? How do you deal with it? Share in the comments below.










